My pal Melba Moon stopped by to tell us about her very interesting journey to publishing!
I know you will give her a big welcome!
A New Beginning
By Melba Moon, Editor
Have you ever considered just scrapping everything and
starting over? I have several times, and usually when I do I have to force
myself to follow through. It is about reinventing yourself. Now don’t get me
wrong, I’m not talking about leaving your spouse or kids. I’ve been married to the same man for
more than forty years, have raised two children and currently have two
grandchildren. Those stats are not going to change for me.
What I’m talking about is recreating yourself, who you are,
what you are and what you want to be. I’ve done this several times over the
course of my life. I discovered a long time ago that I am, and should be, the
master of my own destiny. I adopted a motto years ago and still follow it to
this day.
If it is to be, it is up to me.
That’s my motto, no one has ever given me anything. Every
achievement has come through hard work and struggle. Sure, I had support along
the way. But it was my own determination, effort, sweat, and tears that brought
about those changes.
You see, I’ve always been one to do things the hard way.
I’ve learned by experience and some of those lessons weren’t easy or kind. My
first lesson was to learn to value education. It wasn’t that I didn’t value it,
it was that life got in the way. I married young and had two children within
the first three years. So, once I realized that lacking a high school diploma
would hold me back from getting a good job, I went to night school and got a
GED.
Next lesson, the person with the GED is the first one to go
when times get tough and a company is forced to make lay-off. I met this
challenge by enrolling in college and earning not one, but two degrees. Since
earning that first degree, I have been employed and secure in my career.
My next lesson was harder to figure out. I had an education
and two degrees, yet still I felt there was something missing. It wasn’t about
family or social commitments or being happy in my life. It was about being
fulfilled. You see, I had always wanted to be a writer. I love to read, and writing
is the natural continuation of that love.
If it is to be, it’s up to me. (Remember?)
No one was going to help me write. No one was going to say,
here take these free hours and write. No, I had to learn to fight for the days,
hours, or minutes. I had to put writing first. I gave up sewing, my second
love. I sold all my stacked back bundles of cloth, cleaned my sewing room and created my office.
I spent the time to learn to touch type. My first manuscript
was written on an electric type writer using carbon paper. Does anyone remember
those days? Then I bought a computer, one of the early ones with no hard drive,
just two floppy drives. That made life a little easier. Then I upgraded to a
computer with a hard drive and finally to a laptop that would allow me to
travel and to go to Starbucks for writing sessions. I submitted and was
rejected. I submitted short stories and was published.
Still I continued on my quest. I joined writer’s groups, I
attended meetings and conferences. I honed my craft. I have recently been
offered a contract for a short story that will be in the first anthology to be
published by Gilded Dragonfly Books. I’ve been asked for fulls and partials and
I’ve been rejected by the best of them. But…
The next amazing step along my journey is becoming an
acquiring editor at Gilded Dragonfly Books. www.gildeddragonflybooks.wordpress.com. I’m looking for a different story,
a great story, a great voice and talent to match. I’ll be acquiring historical,
contemporary, paranormal and romantic suspense. If you have a great book, send
it to me at Novelkid@aol.com. Be sure to
mark it attention Melba Moon
You have done it again! So proud of you!
Thanks Mary! I am looking forward to this new venture. So, remember everyone, if you have a great story be sure to submit it to GDB.
Melba
I loved this, Melba! What an inspiring journey to read about. And a real boost to me. Thanks for sharing with us.
What a terrific way to get right where you need to be! Thanks for sharing!
Beth,
I've always been hard headed and determined. Guess that was what helped me to never give up! I'm looking forward to the new adventure. It will be interesting to be a part of Gilded Dragonfly Books.
Melba
Mary,
It was a convoluted way at any rate. I am now excited about the possibilities at Gilded Dragonfly Books.
Melba
You're an inspiration, Melba! :~)
Thanks, Barbara. I've always felt like a work in progress!
Melba
Very exciting times for you, Melba. Sincere congrats.